Queer-Competent Therapy for Adults in Michigan (Online)
Therapy that doesn’t ask you to shrink, correct, or educate.
Finding a therapist as a queer, trans, or otherwise marginalized person can be exhausting.
You may have explained your pronouns, identity, or relationship structure more times than you can count. You may have been misgendered, misunderstood, pathologized, or met with confusion instead of care. Over time, that adds up — and it can make reaching out for therapy feel risky or discouraging.
You may be here because…
You’re feeling anxious, burned out, or stuck — and tired of carrying it alone
You’ve had to spend a lot of energy monitoring yourself, explaining yourself, or adapting to environments that don’t quite fit
You’re navigating a period of transition or change — related to identity, social or medical transition, relationship structure, coming out, or setting boundaries with family
Stress, anxiety, or OCD feels intertwined with pressure, vigilance, or self-doubt
Past therapy felt invalidating, overly clinical, or required you to educate instead of be supported
You want therapy that takes identity and context seriously, without making it the reason for every little thing
LGBTQIA+ competent therapy is more than affirming, more than getting your pronouns right (though yes — that too).
You don’t have to endlessly educate your therapist to be understood. Your identity has never been a problem to be psychoanalyzed. It’s treated with care and respect — without being picked apart, interrogated, or turned into the explanation for every little thing about your regular human life.
Like it should, therapy centers what matters most to you.
What makes a queer competent therapist?
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Like many therapists, we affirm the full spectrum of gender, sexuality, expression, and identity beyond the binary.
But queer- and trans-competent therapy goes deeper than affirmation and getting your pronouns right. It means understanding the unique needs of LGBTQIA+ folks and offering care that’s informed, respectful, and attuned.
This isn’t new to us—we’ve spent years learning, listening, and showing up.
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In this space, you're the expert on yourself. At the same time, we've done our homework, so you are not left to constantly educate, correct, or advocate for yourself.
We remain curious about your experiences and we do not assume every little thing is directly related to your gender or sexuality.
We focus on your goals and what matters to you.
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We know that your experiences can’t be separated from the many parts of who you are—your race, gender, body, sexuality, ability, and more. These layers can shape how the world treats you, and how that treatment impacts your mental health.
We try to hold all of that with care. Intersectionality isn’t a buzzword to us—it’s part of how we show up.
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We believe that community and connection are essential and work to help you strengthen the support systems around you. Recognizing the presence of discrimination in the medical field, we connect with diverse queer-competent providers across disciplines.
We know the LGBTQIA+ resources in our city, or how to find them. We connect you to the right people and services.
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We are sensitive to the pain that brings you to therapy. Deeply. We also know that, while real and permeable, your pain doesn't touch a fraction of who you fundamentally are.
We put just as much (if not more) stock into celebrating and amplifying your resilience, joy, values, strengths...
and all the things that make you (wonderfully, beautifully) YOU.
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We know the world doesn’t pause just because therapy begins. And no amount of training makes us exempt from the impact of our identities or the potential to cause harm.
That’s why we stay in the work—examining our own gender, sexuality, and bias, and practicing ongoing self-reflection, honesty, and awareness.
We know that trust is earned, not granted. You are the one that gets to decide if we are trustworthy and safe.
We encourage feedback and avoid centering on ourselves and our feelings if we mess-up or misstep.
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Remaining engaged in advocacy for queer and trans communities, we stay informed about real events, policies, and language. We challenge inaccurate information, harmful attitudes, and discriminatory beliefs in our personal and professional circles.
We stay dedicated to fostering a safer world for queer and trans folks—one that embraces diversity and our collective wholeness.
Until then, we will keep on doing what we can to pave the way toward true Queer and Trans Liberation.
If you're seeking a therapist who not only understands but celebrates your identity,
I invite you to schedule a free 20-minute phone consultation with me. Together, we can explore your needs and see how I can help. I look forward to the opportunity!
LGBTQIA+ Resources
Grand Rapids-Based
Grand Rapids Pride Center
Offers support groups for youth, adults, BIPOC, caregivers, and more, along with health equity and therapy assistance programs. grpride.orgGIFT (Gays in Faith Together)
Supports LGBTQIA+ individuals of faith through support groups, education, and community events. giftgr.orgGrand Rapids LGBTQ+ Healthcare Consortium
Connects LGBTQ+ individuals with affirming healthcare providers and works to reduce health disparities. grlgbtqhealthcareconsortium.orgArbor Circle – LGBTQIA+ Youth Services
Offers counseling and support services for LGBTQIA+ youth aged 10–18 in Kent and Ottawa counties. arborcircle.orgPrism GR – City of Grand Rapids
An employee resource group promoting an inclusive environment for LGBTQIA+ city employees. grandrapidsmi.gov/prismgrGrand Rapids Trans Foundation
Provides scholarships and resources to support the transgender community in Grand Rapids. grtransfoundation.org
Statewide & National
Equality Michigan
Advocates for LGBTQIA+ rights across Michigan through policy work, education, and victim services. equalitymi.orgTransgender Michigan
Offers support, education, and advocacy for transgender individuals throughout Michigan. transgendermichigan.orgTransPapers.lgbt
A free tool to help trans individuals navigate legal name and gender marker changes. Now includes both Michigan and Oregon! transpapers.lgbtThe Trevor Project
Provides crisis intervention and suicide prevention services to LGBTQIA+ youth. thetrevorproject.orgTrans Lifeline
A peer support and crisis hotline run by and for trans people. translifeline.orgLGBT National Help Center
Offers free and confidential peer support and resources for LGBTQIA+ individuals. glbthotline.org

